Are You and Your Date Compatible?
Finding out whether or not you are compatible with your date can be a daunting and challenging task. Here are a few tips to try out to find out if you and your date are hitting it off or not.
1. Play a game with them
That doesn’t mean teasing or something like that, I mean really play a game with them. Take them out to a bowling alley, play some air hockey or other arcade games, make sure you are surrounded in a real fun social environment. Notice if they are trying to win at all costs, if they hate losing, or if they are trying to help you to win. The way they play could be signs for how they will handle a disagreement.
2. Take her with you on an errand
You have some place to go before a date? Then take her with you. Whether it is picking up a few things at a grocery store or picking up something from the dry cleaners, see how they handle it or even help you out with whatever it is that you are doing.
3. Spend an entire day with them
Try to go on an entire day date with them, of course not on the first date, but maybe on a third or fourth date. Go to a day spa or a beach, head to a shopping mall or even go mountain climbing together. Try to see how your date interacts with other people and if both of you can have a fun time spending an entire day together.
4. Go on a small trip
Take a road trip somewhere or even a boat ride. Pick a destination and find some activities to do together. Small trips are great ways to bond with your date, even married couples that go on vacations can find a romantic bond. If they are driving, notice how they handle traffic situations. Take notice on how you plan an itinerary together. A lot can be learned from a simple small trip together.
Getting to know someone is fun but finding out if you two are compatible is a whole other story. Try out these tips and suggestions to explore your potential relationship with your date and see if there is a real future between you two.
Do you have any other methods to find out compatibility while dating? Is compatibility something that can be put off or something that should be established right away?